Hello friends and family of Bill Blackley:

After nearly 35 years practicing medicine, Bill has decided to hang up his stethoscope and throw himself into "retirement" -- though some folks think Bill will never retire -- he is certain to remain active in many communities in North Carolina and beyond.

This blog is for old friends and new, co-workers, patients, musicians, artists, Boy Scouts, environmental activists, Tarheel basketball fans, family, and all who would like to share a word of congratulations, thanks, a silly Bill story, or a celebration for his years of contribution to his patients, and his community.

Please join us in raising a virtual toast to Bill!

Shhhhhh.... this is a secret! We'll unveil the blog with your messages to him in mid-June, but posts are welcome indefinitely.

To share a message, funny Bill memory, toast or other thoughts, email your post to me (Molly) at blackley@uw.edu, and I will post for you (please include your name, and how you know Bill).

Thanks for joining in the fun! With love and thanks,
Sandie... Molly, Ben, and Will Jackson...Seth, Brae and Davis Blackley

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

I need a Bill Story!

I began working at the Urgent Care just about the same time as Bill. As I first got to know him, he would often tell me a story. It could be anything...something funny, something from his diverse and colorful life, or just some pearl of wisdom. I began coming to work telling him "I need a Bill story!" He would always graciously oblige. Through those stories I came to know and love him. Over the years, he has been a mentor, a surrogate father and a friend to me. I would like to think I am a better practitioner, person, spouse and mother having known him. His openness and willingness to share his knowledge and wisdom have been invaluable in my life. When I worry about my kids, amongst all the wonderful advice he has shared with me and when all else fails, I hear Bill's voice in my head..."Just love 'em and be there for them." I have read countless books to my kids and continue to do so even though they can now read. Plus, a dictionary is always just fingertips away. I think of Bill telling me about he and Seth reading Moby Dick; no book is too long or hard if you take it a page at a time. No task is too hard when you tackle it together and break it down into small pieces.

Though sometimes challenging, I try to see my patients through Bill's eyes and treat each one w/openness, compassion and like they were family. I am still trying to perfect this skill that he seems to accomplish with ease! I can only imagine the countless lives he has saved, touched and changed for the better. Have you ever heard his quit smoking exhortation? No one does it better than Bill. I don't think I ever started a day with Bill without a warm greeting and a hug nor ever ended a day that I didn't hear "Great job today, thanks for your hard work." (Not to mention the countless high fives or fist bumps throughout our 12+ hour days!)

He has taught me that life is a journey and not a destination. Life is not always fair or good but what counts is what you make of it. Nothing is impossible. Pursue your passions. Perseverance. Ambition. Compassion. I could go on and on and my words would still be inadequate; so it is with much love and appreciation that I wish you all the best in your many new adventures.

Kelly Boone
Nurse Practitioner

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